Confidence builds as you see/read/hear what other people have accomplished. "Wow, maybe if they did it, maybe I can too."
Self-hypnosis training is one of the fastest way to gain more confidence, boost your self-esteem, tap into your healing power and move beyond obstacles.
What can a healed (from past traumatic experiences) and trained mind do for you? It will let you be the best you can be.
Being "the best you can be" starts with BUILDING CONFIDENCE.
Watch the videos on my website, listen, read the stories below of people who have transcended their challenge and FEEL it.
Freud, Adler, Jung, Baudoin, Lacan... the first ones who dealt with the sub/unconscious.
It often took years to get to the root cause of a problem, and to accept it... without solving it.
InterActive Guided Imagery
1900s: Research showed that images could trigger responses in the body. Guided Imagery helped solve health issues and InterActive Guided Imagery got treasures of wisdom and solutions by dialoguing with the subconscious mind.
Starting in the 1980s, Energy Psychology entered the picture. Intertwining acupressure with psychotherapy resulting in fast resolution of fears, phobias, addictions, and even "old" pain.
Hypnosis and NLP
Forget hypnosis media hype and NLP unethical marketing. Hypnosis and NLP are two of the most powerful techniques for rapid and lasting transformation. You direct your mind to change brain wiring so you can enjoy an empowered life.
This is my goal for you.
1. To help you get rid of issues, restore confidence and awaken your Inner Champion.
2. To train you to use powerful techniques so you can empower yourself when new challenges arise.
Let's Take a Look at the Power of the Mind
What is Imagery? It is a flow of thoughts that can be seen, heard, felt, smelled or tasted in one's imagination.
Imagery has been said to be:
- the language of the right brain
- the language of the nervous system
- the language of the emotions
- the language of the unconscious and
- the interface between mind and body.
Imagery can help us understand what is going on at a deeper level by letting us access information and resources stored in the body.
Like any other language, it can be learned and mastered.
Imagery has been recognized as one of the most effective alternative therapies available. It is a powerful technique using the untapped resources of the mind.
Since guided imagery has powerful physiological consequences and also conveys important and otherwise inaccessible information from the unconscious mind, there are virtually no limits to the number of situations where it can be used in health care settings (for acute/chronic pain or to prepare for surgery), for fitness training, stress reduction/management, to resolve PTS(D) issues, to improve sports performance, and/or to find meaning and purpose in one's life.
Therapeutic guided imagery allows clients to enter a relaxed state of mind, and then to focus their attention on images associated with the issues they are confronting. For example, one can invite an image to form that represents a particular medical symptom, and then initiate an imaginary dialogue with the image to ask why it’s there, what it wants, what it needs, where it’s going, and what it has to offer. The information obtained from such a dialogue can often be more directly helpful than even the most sophisticated medical diagnostic tests.
By using an interactive, non-judgmental, content-free guiding style, experienced imagery practitioners can encourage patients to tap their latent inner resources to find new and creative solutions for their own problems. The consistent emphasis on inner resources and solutions lead to minimal transference, greater opportunities for effective client self-care, an enhanced sense of self-efficacy, and the rapid development of patient autonomy.
Imagery can help by revealing the source of the problem or symptom, and by giving insights into the situations we are facing. It can help us relax, relieve stress, slow down heart rate, stimulate the immune system, reduce pain, eliminate side-effects, change the levels of hormones and neurotransmitters in the blood... It can help us cope with chronic and life-threatening illnesses, balance emotions, stimulate healing, resolve problems and conflicts, sharpen intuition, and become more effective at setting and reaching goals.
It has powerful physiological consequences, which are directly related to the healing systems of the body.
Emotions and creativity have often been suppressed and locked up in the body. They may surface years later as uncomfortable symptoms, allowing them to be released.
Everyone uses Imagery all the time.
Do you ever worry? That's a kind of imagery... the negative kind.
If I were to say "Don't think about an elephant!" What would you see with your mind's eyes?
If I were to ask you to close your eyes and describe your living room or a home you lived in as a child... you would be using Imagery.
We do it all the time, without using the word "Imagery". However, we have not been trained to use it to our advantage.
From my training with Dr. Martin . Rossman, M.D.
Co-Founder of the Academy For InterActive Guided Imagery(sm) from which I graduated in 1998
Examples from Self-Healing, Published by Awareness Press (used with permission)
"While yours is the most important image, a few examples of images that others have created might help you realize how different and personal imagery can be and still be effective."
Consider 3 people with back problems.
An orthopedic surgeon friend of mine had a severely herniated lumbar disk. He was a very progressive surgeon who had used hypnosis to help his patients recover quickly from surgery, and he believed in the power of the mind to assist healing. He doubted, however, that imagery could help repair a ruptured intervertebral disk, but he wanted to do anything he could to avoid surgery. He was able to visualize the disk quite well, since he had seen so many of them in his work. He described it as a fibrous sack, whose contents had "blown out" and were now pressing on a nerve in his back. He couldn't imagine a satisfactory way for it to be repaired without surgery, and became increasingly frustrated. Finally, he decided to relax very deeply and see if the image could change by itself. Suddenly he saw a vivid image of the center of the disk being sucked back into the sack, and the tear sealing itself up like the diaphragm of a camera. The image was so clear it startled him. He was even more startled to find that after this session he was greatly relieved of pain and was able to walk without pain down his leg for the first time in weeks. He went on to recover completely without surgery, a fact that has both pleased and amazed him since.
Another friend and patient with a recurring back problem would imagine a huge rope knot representing the muscle spasms in his back. As he relaxed, he could visualize the knot loosening and found that his back muscles completely relaxed by the time he was able to imagine the knot untied.
A third patient with a one-year history of severe unremitting back pain imagined a knife stabbing him in the back. In guided imagery, he was asked to look at who put the knife there, and he saw his ex-business partner who had stolen from and ruined their business. A brief course of counseling sessions helped him express and come to terms with the feelings of anger and loss that he had been holding inside, and his back pain disappeared as he worked through his feelings.
The point here is that a similar problem may produce different images in different people, and may lead in different directions for healing. Sometimes, active imagery will suffice to relieve pain and stimulate healing, while in other cases receptive imagery will point to physical, emotional, or situational problems that need resolution before healing can proceed.
Let's look at some other images that patients of mine have created of their illnesses and their healing processes. Remember, while "create" is not quite the right word - "receive" might be better - these images came from concentrating on the problem and being receptive to the images that formed.
A man with a painfully inflamed wrist imagined his wrist bones having sharp, jagged edges that grated on each other as he used his hand. In contrast, the image of his normal wrist included round bones, with rubber and cotton cushions between them, allowing smooth, painless movements. In his Healing Imagery, he imagined gently placing cushions and supports between the bones of the painful wrist and was able to greatly reduce his discomfort as his wrist healed. His imagery was not anatomically correct, yet it was effective in reducing his pain.
A young man with ulcerative colitis had been having painful abdominal cramping and bleeding from his rectum for two months. Medication was not helping, and he wanted to avoid cortisone if he could. He imagined his colon being red, raw and irritable. He said it seemed "uptight" and "oversensitive." As he relaxed with his hands on his abdomen, he imagined his hand melting into his body and lovingly stroking and massaging his colon. He imagined his colon relaxing and resting in his hands. At the same time, he felt a pleasant sense of warmth in his belly, and imagined fresh, healthy blood flowing to his colon, refreshing, cleansing, and healing it. In two days he was free of symptoms. Three weeks later, his gastro-enterologist said his colon appeared to be completely healed
A sixty-five-year-old retired heavy equipment operator with a herniated disk in his back imagined a tiny work crew inserting house-lifting jacks between his vertebrae. He then imagined them clearing out the old "busted" disk and installing a fresh one, which he visualized as a small, very tough rubber ball. When the "work crew" lowered the top vertebra, the ball flattened into a cylindrical shock absorber, which maintained the space between the bones. He even imagined it cushioning the joint as he walked. He found this image to be a consistently effective way to relieve his back pain and sciatica.
A fifty-two-year-old businessman with a peptic ulcer visualized spraying the inside of his stomach and intestines with a cooling white foam three times a day between meals. He was able not only to relieve his pain but heal quickly, discontinued the ulcer medications, and remained free of ulcers through several stressful years.
A mother of three with a week-long sinus headache focused on her pain and saw a large eye with wings on either side. As she watched it, it suddenly flew away, and a large glob of mucus fell into the back of her throat. She was surprised to sit up and find that her headache was relieved. Neither she, nor I ever understood the significance of the symbol. It seemed as if the imagery itself produced relief.
A twenty-seven-year-old junior executive was having anxiety attacks at work. As he relaxed and asked for an image for his anxiety, he saw a frenetic honeybee, flying about in an agitated state. The bee seemed scattered and didn't seem to have any pattern or direction in its movement. The image for healing that came to him was a rose. He imagined holding the rose out to the bee, and it came over and began collecting nectar. The bee then seemed more relaxed and content, and so did the young man. He found this simple visualization calming and centering and used it for a few minutes at a time whenever he began.
She was very happy in her marriage, yet did not enjoy intimacy. She wanted to correct that.
The image that came to her was of a wedding dress, stained with blood. Her husband had been "the first" and she resented it.
We reframed the experience, and she called me from a vacation spot, where she was having a wonderful weekend of intimacy.
She had tried diets and exercises, and nothing worked.
The image that came to her was of an old galleon, going from Europe to America, when the Pilgrims were escaping from the Old Continent. Somehow, a genetic memory of starvation on the galleon had been passed on from generation to generation. She felt she was constantly starving. Once the culprit discovered, diet and exercises started to work.
He was not making any headway. His businesses were either stagnating or floundering. He wanted to know why.
His subconscious mind, imagined as a wise old guy, told him that he was punishing himself for having addictions. It was a choice point: continuing or stopping the addictions, or changing his belief?
She needed major dental work done and dreaded the thought. She had pushed the work to be done until the pain was just too much to bare. Could Imagery help her?
During the session, the images that came to her were of a peaceful, beautiful, sunny beach. The sun was warm, the temperature was ideal, the waves were gently lapping on the sand, seagulls were flying overhead.
She no longer dreaded going to the dentist, and she enjoyed relaxing appointments there.
She was caught in a nasty divorce/custody lawsuit, and dreaded the never-ending hearings, where she felt victimized.
She needed empowerment.
The image of power that came to her was of herself in a martial arts class. During an imagery session, she practiced the feelings she felt while in her class - she was a black belt - so she could bring that state with her in court.
Assertive, calm, confident, empowered.
She was no longer a victim.
This young man, in his early twenties, was referred to me by a client. She feared he was going to commit suicide. We talked for a while. He was willing to relax, and review the places in his life where he had been happy. He noticed that the only time he felt depressed to the point of suicide was when he was with his aunt. The darkness she was in had been passed on to him.
He chose to move away, and go back to a place where he had been happy.
She Wanted to Quit
We dialogued with the part of her mind who wanted to smoke... why?
She loved smoking.
We dialogued with the part of her mind who wanted to quit... why?
She was a therapist and thought it was a bad example. Moreover, it was not healthy.
The parts dialogued together. They came to a compromise: She would only smoke 5 cigarettes on Saturday.
Both parts were satisfied.
She was no longer a chain smoker... and the parts lived happily thereafter.
5 years of deep depression... She felt she was in a deep black hole.
Over a few sessions, as we safely and slowly explored this deep black hole, instances of pain and abuse came to the surface.
Each time the sub/unconscious brought an event up, the hole lightened, going from black, to dark grey, to light grey, until she was finally able to surface in the light.
The clinical depression was gone.
She was a chiropractor, yet could not get rid of a neck pain that followed a car accident.
Her head was in constant motion as her neck was in spasms.
Our brain/mind is powerful and can conjure up the makings of morphine-like substances in the body, substances believed to be even stronger than opiates, a process I suggested.
She chose another route: She imagined she was a witch and, in her imagination, she started to gather her own ingredients for a powerful mixture: different herbs, frog and bat saliva, snake venom, wing of an owl...
In her mind, she drank this elixir... and her head stopped bobbing.
He contacted me from the gym where he was exercising... or where he was unable to exercise. He was frustrated and at threshold.
He wanted something to change NOW.
I had seen him for a couple of sessions prior to this phone call, and he had already broken his imposed glass-ceiling of $100,000, and had broken-up with a relationship that was dragging him down.
He had been terribly abused as a child, and was severely punished every time he did something good. Hidden in his unconscious was a terror of being punished if he got in great physical shape.
In one session, we dissolve that fear and he became the athlete he wanted to be.
Coaches and athletes have come to recognize that the mental aspects of sport are crucial determinants of success and failure. Anecdotal and experimental evidence support 3 of the most frequently employed and researched procedures: progressive relaxation (Imagery), mental practice (NLP), and hypnosis.
Vanessa Cornett-Murtada says, "Hypnotherapy is an extremely gently and effective therapeutic tool. As a college music instructor and licensed hypnotherapist, I believe there is a direct link between altered state of consciousness and effective music performance. Humans naturally enter a state of hypnosis several times a day. Some examples of altered states of consciousness include daydreaming, meditation, prayer, creative visualisation, yoga, massage therapy and progressive relaxation exercises."
We spend most of our time in a state of self-hypnosis, with habits (thoughts, beliefs, feelings, food, drinks, addictions...) and reactions (fear, phobias, emotions...). Learning to do it better will put you back in the pilot seat.
Hypnosis can benefit parents, teachers and entrepreneurs to release uncontrolled and untreated stress, tension or anxiety, which are a leading cause of poor health.
As fast as we are ready for the change. Once ready, we can turn around on a dime.
Fears, phobias, disempowering habits, needless pain... Why would you keep struggling with them? Contact me for a complimentary/confidential chat.
PTSD-Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
PTSS-Post Traumatic Stress Symptoms
PTSI-Post Traumatic Stress Injury
LAS- Legal Abuse Syndrome, a subset of the above, often encountered in people who are going through protracted litigation.
To Take Control Back!
All hypnosis is self-hypnosis; the hypnotherapist is a facilitator. There can be no hypnosis unless the client is willing to participate in the process.
That’s because hypnosis is a consent state that requires the subject’s co-operation.
If you have ever "zoned out" while driving in the highway, reaching your exit without quite knowing how you got there, you were in an altered state of consciousness.
When you are absorbed in a good book, movie or TV show, you are in a trance.
When you are mesmerized by a beautiful scenery or the antics of an animal, you are in a state of hypnosis.
Biochemical changes caused by drugs, alcohol, dietary supplements or even food can also cause and induce shift in consciousness.
My role is to guide you to put your conscious/critical mind aside, access your sub/unconscious mind, and direct it to make the changes you would like to see in your life.
Rather than being at a loss of control, this is a process of helping you take back control of those parts of your life that seem to be out of control : habits, behaviors, emotions and feelings.
"Research has demonstrated that a person's body chemistry actually changes during a hypnotic trance."
Danielle J. Duperret, ND/PhD - Mindset Mentor